ONTOLOGY DESIGN
OPTION (B)
An authentic and different way to be.
A conversation can change how you relate to what you’re living.
Start a conversation ↗TOTAL HUMAN DESIGN.
Being takes shape in how you think, how you feel and how you inhabit your body. From there, you observe, act and meet others.
(B). BEING. SER.
WHAT WE DO.
We practice ontological design: a space to observe how you’re being, how you relate to others and what possibilities emerge from there.
It isn’t psychology or motivation. Coaching is one way we bring this practice into your life. How? Through conversation.
WHO IS SPEAKING WHEN YOU SAY WHO YOU ARE?
“That’s just who I am.” “This isn’t for me.” “This always happens to me.” Sometimes the radio stays on even when no one is speaking.
You can say “I’m fine” while clenching your jaw. You can want to connect while preparing your body to defend itself. You can say yes while feeling something inside you pull away.
So what is that yes saying?
There may be a tension between what you think, what you feel and what you express that deserves to be heard. Observing it opens the possibility of choosing how to act.
HOW DO YOU WANT TO GO ON BEING?
We converse with others and with ourselves. And, if faith is part of your life, with God too. In each encounter, what we say, hear and feel helps shape the relationship we are building.
Conversation is a dance in which both people make the encounter possible.
You can begin by recognizing an interpretation, preparing for a conversation you’ve been putting off or shaping a request you don’t yet know how to make.
Start a conversation ↘ONTO COACH.
A space to explore what’s happening. One question at a time.
One choice is not a choice.
Two choices is a dilemma.
So you need three choices in order to consider yourself legitimately free to choose.
LET’S KEEP TALKING.
Keep your conversation, or share it with me when you’re ready.
Your conversation stays in this tab until you choose to send it.